15th July will be… Get Out of the Dog House Day
The day takes place annually on the third Monday in July. The phrase “In the doghouse” usually means in disgrace or out of favor.
Usually when we think of someone being in the dog house, we think of a spouse or significant other who has done something bad, but sometimes it’s just as likely to have happened with a friend, family member, coworker or a boss. Have you wronged anyone lately? Have you not had a chance to make it up to them? Have you been too busy to connect with them? Are you looking for the perfect opportunity to get together with them? Or have you sent someone to the Dog House? Are you still upset or mad at them? Get Out of the Dog House Day is all about making up with someone who has sent you to the dog house, or bringing someone back in from the cold!
Use this opportunity to forgive someone or if you wronged someone be sweet to them and
So, assuming the person you upset is willing to honor the spirit of the day and let you work your way out of the doghouse, here are some tips for doing that:
- First, show you understand why you’re even in the doghouse. Apologize and make it clear exactly what you’re apologizing for.
- Admit responsibility for your own actions.
- State how you hope to make it better. Or ask how you can make it better.
- Pitch in and help with household tasks without being asked. Or if there’s something you’ve been putting off, get it done now.
- Plan time for just the two of you to do something together. If the person you’re in the doghouse with is your significant other, make it a romantic evening (preferably after you’ve made your apology)
Finally, recognize that the other person may just need some space and time to forgive you even after you’ve apologized. Just make it clear that you’ll be there when she/he is ready to move forward.
Sources:
https://www.bravotv.com/blogs/stop-being-mad-its-national-get-out-of-the-dog-house-day
ttps://nationaldaycalendar.com/national-get-out-of-the-dog-house-day-third-monday-in-july-2/
